Sam Smith publicly changes pronouns to they/them: “I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am”

“I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think,” Smith wrote on Instagram, “but fuck it.”

September 13, 2019
Sam Smith publicly changes pronouns to they/them: “I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am” Photo: Alexandre Schneider / Getty Images  

London-born singer and FADER cover star Sam Smith, who came out as non-binary in March, wrote this morning on Instagram that they are embracing gender-neutral pronouns. "I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM," the singer wrote. "After a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out. I’m so excited and privileged to be surrounded by people that support me in this decision but I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think but fuck it!" Read Smith's note in full below.

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Today is a good day so here goes. I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM ❤ after a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out. I’m so excited and privileged to be surrounded by people that support me in this decision but I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think but fuck it! I understand there will be many mistakes and mis gendering but all I ask is you please please try. I hope you can see me like I see myself now. Thank you. P.s. I am at no stage just yet to eloquently speak at length about what it means to be non binary but I can’t wait for the day that I am. So for now I just want to be VISIBLE and open. If you have questions and are wondering what this all means I’ll try my best to explain but I have also tagged below the human beings who are fighting the good fight everyday. These are activists and leaders of the non binary/trans community that have helped me and given me so much clarity and understanding. @tomglitter @munroebergdorf @transnormativity @alokvmenon @katemoross @glamrou @travisalabanza @twyrent @chellaman @jvn @lavernecox @stonewalluk @glaad @humanrightscampaign @mermaidsgender Love you all. I’m scared shitless, but feeling super free right now. Be kind x

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Smith came out as non-binary in an interview with Jameela Jamil earlier this year. “When I saw the word non-binary/genderqueer and I read into it and I heard these people speaking,” they said at the time. “I was like, ‘Fuck, that is me.’”

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Smith released their last record, The Thrill of It All, in 2017. Listen to that below.


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Sam Smith publicly changes pronouns to they/them: “I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am”